After The Diagnosis
I would suggest that after you are diagnosed you get a second opinion. Although you might trust your doctors and your facility, this is a rare disease. Getting a second opinion will leave your mind free of doubt about your diagnosis and about your treatment.
Your doctor could probably help you arrange your appointments to get you an appointment as quickly as possible. If not, I am sure that when you call and cancer center and explain your diagnosis they will get you in.
Most insurance companies allow for second opinions. Even though getting this second opinion may delay treatment by a week I think it is worth it for the piece of mind you will get both now and in the future.

Once you have gotten past your decision to obtain a 2nd opinion or maybe even while you are waiting for your appointment you will be introduced into the mysterious world of medicine.
You will probably have X-RAYS, M.R.I., C.A.T scans, and P.E.T scans. It all seems overwhelming. Just the schedule alone is overwhelming let alone the unfamiliarity with the facility and most of the machines.

I hope you have the same experience I did though. Most of the people who helped me through this process were wonderfully compassionate and patient. My experience is that if they aren’t --- you don’t have to just tolerate it. There are plenty of wonderful people to step into help you. You have to remember that you are the consumer, the customer so to speak.
So if you are not getting questions answered or being treated right, either speak up or move on.
While your tests are being analyzed you will be putting together your team of doctors who will be suggested by the dr. that diagnosed you. These doctors, especially you oncologist will become a huge part of your life. so even though they highly recommended , if you don’t feel right for you, move on. It isn’t the end of the world for them. They will get over it.
You will also meet a social worker. This member of your team will be as helpful as you need them to be. They will probably introduce you to the oncology nurses. They will invite you to a support group if it fits for you. There is as much or as little support out there as you want to take advantage of. In the resources section of this site will be a list of programs and groups for you to take advantage of.
